Source: Overcoming 5 Types of Anger
**My note the author intentionally does not mention righteous anger, instead his focus is what I have in the past described as toxic anger.
Source: Overcoming 5 Types of Anger
And next to him the men of Jericho built. And next to them Zaccur the son of Imri built. 3 The sons of Hassenaah built the Fish Gate. They laid its beams and set its doors, its bolts, and its bars. 4 And next to them Meremoth the son of Uriah, son of Hakkoz repaired. And next to them Meshullam the son of Berechiah, son of Meshezabel repaired. And next to them Zadok the son of Baana repaired. 5 And next to them the Tekoites repaired, but their nobles would not stoop to serve their Lord. 6 Joiada the son of Paseah and Meshullam the son of Besodeiah repaired the Gate of Yeshanah. They laid its beams and set its doors, its bolts, and its bars. 7 And next to them repaired Melatiah the Gibeonite and Jadon the Meronothite, the men of Gibeon and of Mizpah, the seat of the governor of the province Beyond the River. 8 Next to them Uzziel the son of Harhaiah, goldsmiths, repaired. Next to him Hananiah, one of the perfumers, repaired, and they restored Jerusalem as far as the Broad Wall. 9 Next to them Rephaiah the son of Hur, ruler of half the district of Jerusalem, repaired. 10 Next to them Jedaiah the son of Harumaph repaired opposite his house. And next to him Hattush the son of Hashabneiah repaired. 11 Malchijah the son of Harim and Hasshub the son of Pahath-moab repaired another section and the Tower of the Ovens. 12 Next to him Shallum the son of Hallohesh, ruler of half the district of Jerusalem, repaired, he and his daughters. 13 Hanun and the inhabitants of Zanoah repaired the Valley Gate. They rebuilt it and set its doors, its bolts, and its bars, and repaired a thousand cubits of the wall, as far as the Dung Gate. 14 Malchijah the son of Rechab, ruler of the district of Beth-haccherem, repaired the Dung Gate. He rebuilt it and set its doors, its bolts, and its bars. 15 And Shallum the son of Col-hozeh, ruler of the district of Mizpah, repaired the Fountain Gate. He rebuilt it and covered it and set its doors, its bolts, and its bars. And he built the wall of the Pool of Shelah of the king’s garden, as far as the stairs that go down from the city of David. 16 After him Nehemiah the son of Azbuk, ruler of half the district of Beth-zur, repaired to a point opposite the tombs of David, as far as the artificial pool, and as far as the house of the mighty men. 17 After him the Levites repaired: Rehum the son of Bani. Next to him Hashabiah, ruler of half the district of Keilah, repaired for his district. 18 After him their brothers repaired: Bavvai the son of Henadad, ruler of half the district of Keilah. 19 Next to him Ezer the son of Jeshua, ruler of Mizpah, repaired another section opposite the ascent to the armory at the buttress. 20 After him Baruch the son of Zabbai repaired another section from the buttress to the door of the house of Eliashib the high priest. 21 After him Meremoth the son of Uriah, son of Hakkoz repaired another section from the door of the house of Eliashib to the end of the house of Eliashib. 22 After him the priests, the men of the surrounding area, repaired. 23 After them Benjamin and Hasshub repaired opposite their house. After them Azariah the son of Maaseiah, son of Ananiah repaired beside his own house. 24 After him Binnui the son of enadad repaired another section, from the house of Azariah to the buttress 25 and to the corner. Palal the son of Uzai repaired opposite the buttress and the tower projecting from the upper house of the king at the court of the guard. After him Pedaiah the son of Parosh 26 and the temple servants living on Ophel repaired to a point opposite the Water Gate on the east and the projecting tower. 27 After him the Tekoites repaired another section opposite the great projecting tower as far as the wall of Ophel. 28 Above the Horse Gate the priests repaired, each one opposite his own house. 29 After them Zadok the son of Immer repaired opposite his own house. After him Shemaiah the son of Shecaniah, the keeper of the East Gate, repaired. 30 After him Hananiah the son of Shelemiah and Hanun the sixth son of Zalaph repaired another section. After him Meshullam the son of Berechiah repaired opposite his chamber. 31 After him Malchijah, one of the goldsmiths, repaired as far as the house of the temple servants and of the merchants, opposite the Muster Gate, and to the upper chamber of the corner. 32 And between the upper chamber of the corner and the Sheep Gate the goldsmiths and the merchants repaired.
– – – – Nehemiah 3:2-32 (ESV)
Last week we looked at just the first verse of chapter three and its theme of dedicating oneself unto the Lord. This week we can cover the remaining 31 verses again in one major theme. This time the theme is the need to Never try and go it alone.
“Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence wins championships.”
― Michael Jordan
While it might seem strange to start a sermon with a quote from Michael Jordon, yet for all his immense talent Mr. Jordon understood the concept that he was not a one man team. During their two 3 year championship runs the Chicago Bulls had Michael, Scotty Pippen and two sets of core individuals (teammates) in which to depend upon. We too if we are to obtain any amount of success the rebuilding of our lives MUST have a core of individuals (teammates) we can depend upon. We can “Never try and go it Alone”.
The biblical importance of partnership, fellowship, unity etc. is repeated throughout the bible. I want to look at a few areas today that touch on this. First is in the design of creation, in the beginning God created a helper for Adam. Second is in the design of our own bodies many parts functioning as a whole. Next is the area of Christian fellowship. Concluding with a look at this is only possible because of God.
First we it is crucial to establish were not designed to function alone. In the beginning God recognized the need for man to have help and so created a help meet (KJV) for Adam (Gen 2:18).
This idea is carried throughout the Old Testament; we can see it in verses such as:
Proverbs 18:1 ESV Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment. Very few people would consider someone who keeps to themselves as selfish but God does. He says it is because they seek their own, not God’s desires. Compare this with Ps 34:5?
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 ESV Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
My wife’s Harley (I’m the chaufferJ) is around 900 lbs. Trust me at 172 soaking wet I need help getting that thing up if its ever laid down. Two is a must.
Trust me I have heard it all before. Those who feel put down can come up with some very creative excuses why they can’t get help and got to do things alone. I have no one. No one cares for me, no one will write me. I have no stamps. Not one of them is valid.
Listen if we spent half as much effort on doing things to rebuild our lives in preparation for getting out as we did to get in jail all them there excuses would just disappear. Take it from me I had no Christian support on the outside. I knew I need a solid Bible church if I was going to stay out. I wrote 12 churches in the community I planned on going to 18 months before my expected release. One, just one church wrote me back. Guess where I went when I got out. Guess which church my wife and I got married in. Guess which church sent us to Mississippi as domestic missionaries. You cannot make it if you make excuses, you can make because you are not alone God is with you. There is no excuse.
Okay now that I have vented let get off my soap box and continue when we look at ourselves do we think of us as individuals or as the biblical model of many parts working in unison? Look at the following verses with me:
1 Corinthians 12:20-25 ESV As it is, there are many parts, yet one body. The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it,
Ephesians 4:16 ESV From whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.
Do you see it, God has constructed us in such a manner that each part of the body is formed of many parts all working together. The balance God put into effect is amazing On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor… Yes I know technology has made it so some parts are replaceable. But that again is God. Who do you think put the brain cells in these men and women that develop all these things? Some cosmic accidental explosion y’all cannot be that naive.
Today we are taught that it’s all about self, you are beautiful just the way you are and its ok for you to be this or that no matter how you was born. Truth is what you make it because absolute truth cannot be known, and doubting is the mature approach to life. We are fed a bunch of lies when the truth is in front of us. God and God alone is the authority on man, why because He created man. And He created us to function in a manner that was dependent upon God and fellow man.
Are we truly dependent upon our fellow man? I mean, why I need anyone else I am smart I can get along just fine on my own. If you call yourself a Christian you need to rethink this attitude. Again let us turn to the word of God for some answers:
Proverbs 27:17 ESV Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.
Pretty hard to sharpen yourself against your fellow man LONER!
Hebrews 10:25 (ESV) Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.
We are commanded to join together in fellowship to worship God. Note this is not some optional club meeting. This is God commanding us to fellowship, keep reading to find out why.
1 Peter 4:10 ESV As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace:
If you go about serving yourself, well that would just get you a trip to the checkup from the neck up doctorJ.
1 John 1:1-4 ESV That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we looked upon and have touched with our hands, concerning the word of life— 2 the life was made manifest, and we have seen it, and testify to it and proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and was made manifest to us— 3 that which we have seen and heard we proclaim also to you, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ. 4 And we are writing these things so that our joy may be complete.
I know I have used this before (It is a favorite) but verses 3 & 4 are crucial. Do you know anyone who does not want JOY in their life? If you want joy you might as well want fullness of JOY right? To get it you MUST (can’t void it, work around it, shy away from it, make excuses to get out of it) have fellowship with God and other Christians
“When a Christian shuns fellowship with other Christians, the devil smiles; When he stops studying the Bible, the devil laughs; When he stops praying, the devil shouts for joy.” Corrie Ten Boom
Can you think of any instances of fellowship (teamwork) in the bible? How about:
Noah and his Sons, one man did not build that big ole boat
Mosses and Aaron
Naomi and Ruth
Priscilla and Aquila
Paul and Silas
Ok who missed it? Of course, Nehemiah today’s text; we won’t read it again but the whole of Chapter three except for verse one describes groups of men (teams) working together to rebuild the walls and gates of Jerusalem.
In closing tonight I want to try and come full circle as it were. We as believer’s can only enjoy this fellowship with others and God because of God. Like everything else that comes our way it is not by our works but buy His grace. His word tells us:
1 Corinthians 1:9 (ESV) God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.
John Gill in his commentary says: unto the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord; to partake of his grace, and to be heirs of glory with him; to enjoy communion with him in private and public exercises of religion, which is an evidence of being in him, and of union to him; for it is not merely into the fellowship of his saints or churches, but into the fellowship of his Son they are said to be called; and such are members of Christ, of his body, of his flesh, and of his bone; and shall never be lost and perish, but shall be confirmed to the end; be preserved in him blameless, and presented to him faultless, and have everlasting life.
Think on that for a moment with me, “heirs of Glory with Him”. When God adopts you it not like being the proverbial redheaded step child. No we are given the keys to the kingdom. Can you even imagine “enjoy communion with hit [Jesus] in private” please do not take this as being flippant but think of asking Him to sit and just talk about whatever.
I love John Wesley quote “I want the whole Christ for my Saviour, the whole Bible for my book, the whole Church for my fellowship, and the whole world for my mission field.” John Wesley was saying he was 100% all in as a Christian there was no walking the fence for him. He wanted all that it had to offer, including the fellowship of the Church.
Whether it is in church, on the job, at home or in a jail cell we are not alone. God word tells us “Never try and go it Alone”. He expects us to seek fellowship with Him and true fellow believers. This will never be truer than for those who will be rebuilding their lives after a period of incarceration or addiction recovery or restitution rehabilitation whatever the case may be. Not only is a biblical principle it is a statistical fact that those who get out and find a solid faith based support network, a good church, and a job their recidivism (return to incarceration) rate drops dramatically.
If you are do not know this fellowship with Christ and fellow believers I encourage you to admit you are a sinner, confessing your sins to Christ and accepting Him as Lord of your life.
In HIS Service